90 DAYS

Welcome to [[America ]]

DAY ONE: You arrive at the airport ready to meet your fiancé. The 90 days starts now, at the end of the 90 days you will either be married or single going back to your home country. [[Where will your choices have you at the end of the 90 days?]]

You arrive at your new home. It does not look like the movies. Do you mention this to your fiance? [[YES! ]] [[ NO!]]

your fiancé tells you about the [["American Dream"]]

your fiancé tells you about all the things they couldn't do over the phone - like they live with their mom and currently have no job. You arrive to [[your new home]].

they lecture you until you arrive to your [[new Amercian home. ]]

You also now realize that they live in Bakersfield, not LA... This is your [[new Amercian home. ]]

you arrive at your new home. You realize your fiance and your future mother in law, share everything and seem to be codependent. Do you share your concerns? [[YES!! but alone]] ! [[ NO!! keep the peace]] ! [[ YES! In front of mother in law]]!

Your fiancé listens and understands. They will try and work harder. They know expect/ask you to do all the house duties, while they still dont work. Do you make an Ultimatum? [[YES]] [[NO]]

This creates resentment. You call your family members and confide in them. Take their advice? [[ Yes ]] [[ No]]

Their mother gets upset. They confront how you hurt their mom's feelings. Do you [[ apologize]] or [[ stand your ground?]]

Fiancé gets nervous and agree's. [[NEXT DAY]]

Your fiancé says you need to pull your weight. [[NEXT DAY]]

Fiancé thinks family dislikes them and disapproves of your marriage. [[NEXT DAY]]

It will build more resentment. [[NEXT DAY]]

Their mom is now wary of your intentions and thinks you are controlling. [[NEXT DAY]]

Their mother now dislikes you. [[NEXT DAY]]

Today, You are meeting your fiancé's friends. You are all going out to a nice dinner to celebrate the engagement. They say their best friends are the best! What do you wear? [[ Revealing Slay Sexy Look ]] or [[ Conservative Reserved Boring Look ]]

You have shocked, offended his friends!! "This isn't ________!!!" [[ Be Confident ? ]] or [[ Put on a Sweater ]]

They are happy and friendly to you. They start asking lots of questions of your home country and how adjusting to the cultural changes has been. "How do you like living in the USA?" [[ I love it!! ]] or [[ its different....]]

Their friends get offended that you aren't changing your ways for your spouse! They start asking you [[ questions... ]]

They now see you as a submissive and a possible suitor. You start to hear comments that make your eyebrows raise about your fiancé. [[ Like......... ]]

"You are so lucky to be here!! You are living the American dream!! Are you here for a green card??"

"Are you here for a green card?!?!?"

"You are so lucky!!! Its so nice that your fiancé can take care of you! You are so lucky to be able come to the USA!! Are you sure your not just here for a green card?"